Letters to Little Me: Why Writing to Your Younger Self Heals Generational Stories

A Raised by 1912 Reflection on Memory, Healing, and Becoming

There is a version of you — young, hopeful, soft — who never truly went away.
She lives inside your memory, inside your wounds, inside the moments you wish someone had held you tighter or loved you better.

Writing Letters to Little Me is not just reflection.
It is repair.
It is remembrance.
It is generational healing.

Why These Letters Matter

Your younger self carried things she never had the emotional language to express.
She was doing the best she could with the tools she had.

Writing to her now allows you to:

  • validate her pain

  • honor her innocence

  • rewrite the stories she misunderstood

  • give her the comfort she didn’t receive

  • and release what she shouldn’t have carried into adulthood

When she heals, you heal.

Your Younger Self Is Still Waiting to Hear From You

She wants to know:

  • “You survived.”

  • “You didn’t deserve what happened.”

  • “You’re not hard to love.”

  • “You’re safe now.”

  • “I’m here. I’m listening.”

These letters give her closure — and give you freedom.

Letters Become a Bridge Between Who You Were and Who You’re Becoming

When you write to her, you reconnect the broken pieces of your story.

You become:

  • softer

  • braver

  • more forgiving

  • more whole

These letters close the emotional gaps between the girl you were and the woman you are becoming.

How to Start Writing Your Own Letters

Begin with one question:

“What did I need to hear at that age?”

Speak gently.
Speak truthfully.
Speak like someone who survived.
Speak like someone who finally understands.

These letters rewrite your lineage — one soft page at a time.

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Dear Little Me, Thank You for Holding On.